Your Break Up To Make Up Guide To Getting Back Together After a Break Up

September 3rd, 2010

If you had been co-habiting for any length of time, you and your ex had a lot invested in your relationship. You obviously loved and cared for each other. But something went wrong and one of you decided to call it quits. How you handle the relationship break up may have a lot to do with whether you can ever break up to make up.

If you are the one initiating the break up, try to do it with love and kindness.  Whether you are truly calling it quits or just wanting time out, remember that this is a person who has been essential to you and you have a responsibility to take his or her feelings into account.

It’s generally best to tell the person that you want to break up with, in a public place.  That’s because people are less likely to embarrass themselves if others are around.  Also, don’t draw the break up out.  Just say your piece and leave.

Once you have broken up, leave the channels of communication open.  Be there for your ex when he or she needs you.

Don’t play games with your ex.  Some people suggest dating their best friend or flaunting a new date on your ex, but consider that if you ever make up; these things are going to haunt your new relationship.

If you have found that you want to be getting back together after a break up, consider the following:

· Tell them that you are interested

· Be interesting yourself – take up new activities and make new friends

· Try a new look – whether it is a new hair style or simply updating your grooming, your ex will notice.

Suggest that you meet up with your ex for lunch or some other non-romantic activity.  During this time, you can bring up the positive memories you shared.  You can also highlight any changes you have made in your life.

If your ex gives you any suggestion that he or she is willing to give it a second try, don’t presume that you can start right back where you left off.  Woo your boyfriend or girlfriend.  Go out on romantic dates.  Start by holding hands, not jumping into the sack. 

Also, give your partner time to heal from the break up.  Don’t assume that your ex’s feelings weren’t hurt by the cooling off period.

Continue improving yourself.  Don’t fall into bad habits just because you’re getting back together after a break up. Constantly strive to be the best boyfriend or girlfriend you can be.

That’s your break up to make up guide to getting back together after a break up.

Good luck in all you do, all you need is a great strategy and determination and you can achieve almost anything.

Before You Reward Your Employees

September 3rd, 2010

To be motivational, reward and recognition must be appropriate in the eye of the receiver. Tickets for the big game are fine if you enjoy sport. If you don’t enjoy sport but you would like the value of the tickets to spend on something else instead, your reward just turned into another task; selling the tickets. Although they may be easy to sell on to someone else, the motivational edge has been diminished slightly.

The following is a bit like the health warning on a pack of cigarettes. This short compilation of religious issues highlights what could arise if you target an inappropriate reward on a person with certain strong beliefs. That’s not to say this will be the case for everyone in that sub-group of humanity but nevertheless a little care and attention to detail can go a long way.

Most religions are becoming more flexible and tolerant in their outlook on what their followers may or may not do in their day-to-day lives; however there are still a few taboos that it would be worth reminding yourself about.

Jewish

The favorite taboos always cited for those of the Jewish persuasion are food derived from the humble pig and any reference to the holocaust, Nazi Germany or World War 2. Apparently pork and bacon are not the issue they used to be however, it pays to ask. The use of the Nazi swastika emblem is actually illegal in some countries but the atrocities of the World War 2 live on in the minds of the Jewish people and should not be raised, even in fun.

References to non-Jewish festivals such as Christmas and Easter are also mildly insulting to some, but not all, Jews.

Muslim

Pork meat can also be a problem for followers of Islam. It falls under a set of rules called Halal, laid down by the Islamic faith. Strictly speaking, any foodstuff that contains fats or byproducts of pig meat will be forbidden. In addition many of them will not drink alcohol, so that free bottle of wine will just sit on a shelf. Interestingly vanilla essence, which is extracted using alcohol is also considered Halal; so no vanilla ice-cream either.

Christian

Although many people consider themselves to be Christians, it is only the devout Christians who may be offended by inappropriate gestures. Issues like sex, nudity, homosexuality and profanity may be acceptable to the majority of adults but a practicing Christian will be not only embarrassed but perhaps insulted much more than the average person.

Hindu

Hinduism has a tradition of not eating beef as they see it as the unnecessary killing of a useful beast. Many Hindus eat a predominantly vegetarian diet and will also avoid pork, veal, lamb, fish, chicken and dairy products.

Nudity and profanity are heavily censored in Hindu culture. They are less tolerant than the average western community.

In general, it seems, food can be a bit of a hot potato which makes an impromptu company barbeque a little complicated.

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Immunity – One of the Newly Discovered Benefits of Vitamin D

September 3rd, 2010

We usually think of vitamin D in connection with strong bones but the benefits of vitamin D appear to be much more far-reaching. A new study shows that vitamin D can support the immune system and help prevent colds and flu.

Researchers teamed up to conduct a large national study on Vitamin D and respiratory infections. Investigators researched the benefits of vitamin D from several locations: the University of Colorado Denver, Massachusetts General Hospital and Children’s Hospital Boston.

The resulting study, published in the Archives of Internal Medicine, was the largest and most representative of the U.S. population done on the connection between vitamin D and immunity.

Results showed that people with the lowest levels of vitamin D in their blood had significantly more cases of cold and flu. Risks were even higher among those who have chronic respiratory problems like asthma and emphysema. Low levels of vitamin D made them particularly susceptible. (1)

Vitamin D Deficiency Symptoms Can Be Subtle

You may be inclined to take some extra vitamin C to protect against colds, but evidence is building that vitamin D plays an important role as well. It makes sense when you think about it. Cold and flu season is during the winter months – just when natural vitamin D levels are lower. The “sunshine” vitamin is in shorter supply, highlighting the effect of vitamin D deficiency symptoms.

Well known vitamin D deficiency symptoms are rickets in children (lack of bone mineralization leading to deformities), and osteomalacia – a similar condition in adults.

Other symptoms are more subtle… muscle aches, muscle weakness and bone pain. These conditions may not be severe at first and don’t necessarily cause you to think of vitamin D deficiency symptoms – but they just might be.(2)

Foods With Vitamin D Versus Sunshine

Besides sun exposure, vitamin D is present in food. Foods with vitamin D include dairy products like cheese, butter and cream. Also fish, fish liver oils, egg yolks, oysters and margarine.

Unfortunately, it is hard to raise blood levels of vitamin D with diet alone, so many foods are fortified with vitamin D to boost dietary levels. All milk in the United States is fortified with vitamin D as are a lot of cereals and grain products to make it easier for you to get the benefits of vitamin D.

Since it is hard to get what you need from foods with vitamin D, sunshine remains the best natural source. 10-15 minutes of sun exposure, three times a week, is recommended as a minimum. And that’s without sunscreen – which inhibits vitamin D production.

Getting even this amount of sun might be a challenge in the winter in northern climates or for seniors who may be housebound. And believe it or not, it’s becoming a concern for children who spend more time secluded with television and computers than playing outside.

More Reasons for Vitamin D Deficiency Symptoms

Besides lack of sun exposure and eating enough foods with vitamin D, a few other things can come into play. For instance:

A strict vegetarian diet – most food sources of vitamin D are animal based
Milk allergies – dairy products are a common source of vitamin D
Dark skin – more melanin in the skin reduces its ability to make vitamin D from sunlight
Aging – as people age, their kidneys become less able to convert vitamin D to the usable form in the body
Obesity – vitamin D is absorbed from the blood into fat cells, but those with a body mass index of 30 or higher tend to have lower levels of vitamin D
Digestive disorders – if the ability of the intestines to absorb is compromised, the benefits of  vitamin D are lost. This happens in Crohn’s disease, celiac disease, cystic fibrosis and malabsorption disorders. (3)

All of these factors together make for a population that is suffering from vitamin D deficiency.

Better Immunity Means Fewer Respiratory Problems

As new studies are revealing, the benefits of vitamin D include better immunity. A survey conducted by the National Center for Health Statistics polled almost 19,000 adults and adolescents. It involved a physical exam and blood analysis.

Those who had the lowest levels of vitamin D – less than 10 nanograms per milliliter of blood – were 40% more likely to have had a respiratory infection than those whose level of vitamin D was 30ng/ml or higher. This held true year round, regardless of traditional cold and flu season.

Patients with cardio obstructive pulmonary disease (COPD) who were deficient in vitamin D had twice as many respiratory infections. Asthma patients with low vitamin D fared the worst – they had five times as many respiratory infections.

Dr. Carlos Camargo, senior author of the study, pointed out, “A respiratory infection in someone with otherwise healthy lungs usually causes a few days of relatively mild symptoms, but respiratory infections in individuals with an underlying lung disease can cause serious attacks of asthma or COPD that may require urgent office visits, emergency department visits or hospitalizations. So the impact of preventing infections in these patients could be very large.” (4)

Boost your own immunity with a little sunshine – in moderation – to take advantage of the benefits of vitamin D.

Before you make any changes to your own diet, exercise or supplement routine, please consult with your personal physician.

Sources:

Ginde AA, Liu MC, Camargo CA, Demographic Differences and Trends of Vitamin D Insufficiency in the US Population, 1988-2004, Arch Intern Med. 2009;169(6):626-632
Vogin G, “Vitamin D Deficiency,” WebMD.com, July 13, 2009
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“Vitamin D Boosts Immunity, Prevents Colds, Flu: Study,” MedIndia.net, Feb 24, 2009

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The Life…My Life !!!

September 3rd, 2010

I remember the day i got my leaving certificate from xavier’s. i stepped out of the gate and burst into tears. i was leaving college n going to jai hind of all the colleges i could possibly go to. the orientation session for JHBMM dragged on n on n on… the seniors put up an enthusiastic dance n made some fun videos… but the speeches just wouldnt end! i looked around to see i the class was filled with girls… but that wasnt new… in xavier’s there were wat 10 guys in a class of 120! there were no familiar faces. i shifted uneasily in my chair, trying my best to keep the eyelids from drooping. The first day of college began with the SY’s getting a li’l naughty. Ritesh pretended to b a professor (n he kinda looked the part :P ) n asked us boring questions that we tried to sincerely answer. Then came the CR elections. I got elected n Amaan was coaxed into it collectively by the class. The first day had just begun n i was already representing a class i was clueless about in a college i had always looked at as a rival. 

It was July and Jai Hind was abuzz with Malhar preparations. I realised the only way i could possibly feel like a part of jai hind was being on the malhar contingent. So i auditioned for Bollywood dance…and got selected. The theme for Malhar that year was Strret spirit, n the bollywood dance had to be based on the theme of: roadside romeo. Honestly, wearing nav-vari sarees and dancing with guys dressed as Mawali-s on a song like: ‘kya lagti hai ‘ isnt really my thing.All 8 of us on the bollywood team- Navyu, Raashi, Shraddha, Tanmay, Shivam, Harsh, and Siddhant, were quite sceptical about how wat we were doing wud look. But we trusted the choreographer and the SDU. So right at the beginning of BMM, i was nowhere to be seen in the class. The next month i was running all over the college juggling Malhar, CR responsibilites, projects and Project Support (thankfully i had backed out of Polaris). I still remember some1 form class stopping me and saying- “Rashmi, BREATHE!”

And so, after innumerable orange candies, dosa-s, watermelon juices, deo bottles; changing in those horrible washrooms which wouldnt lock; the SDU strategically pestering , bossing, encouraging, cheering, telling us we suck and looking at us like a proud mother looks at her children as she assures them they’ll win; being seen in college only in tracks and t-shirts… we so totally rocked the event!!

15 days after Malhar was Project Support. My most vivid PS memory is the overnight at college. Dinner 
at Pizzeria, coffee at marine plaza, talks of virginities lost and blow jobs(the cocktail) had, a beautiful late night walk along marine drive. Purav acted soooo considerate and dint let me sleep a wink! looking bak i really dont mind, it was the beginning of a friendship i cherish today!

Once all of this was over, i was bak in class! weeeee! surviving certain lectures, getting scandalised at pronunciations, pleading for attendance, pissing off Patki, getting fired at by Vara and having a lecture in Mocha… we did it all. the projects were pretty crazy too! the socio documentary was just smooth… n history ads were insane (we dresed some gorgeous girls as ugly chinese men, akshat was the yuk yuk chinese wife wearing my tube dress, arnav was the hyper chinese reporter and i looked creepy as i fit in a small carton)!

Cutting Chai was the first BMM fest i participated in n it was some mad fun! we were the cheerleaders for the rink football team… n yes we scorched the National’s basketball court! n i placed third in the other event i was participting in as well(investigative journo)! Affee was losing it and Khushboo was trying her best to keep her cool…aanndd we won cutting chai! it was brilliant…

Then came Blitzkrieg… Udit Tarun n me were a team for the shortfilm event…and together we made bandhish… casting Prabal in the film was a good decision and him bringing in Dagli to help us was even better! we had an amazing night shooting at Akhil’s place. and yes, i spent that night wit some 8 guys!
i also acted in Ghunghroo that Akshat Amaan n Aakash made… and thank god mum was around when we shot that sequence! another highlight of blitzkrieg was the play. we got a standing ovation. we placed third (time limit fiasco) but parth got best actor and i got best actress! and i was in the dance… where we totally rocked the stage! first place baby! but overall, they said we lost blitzkrieg by 5 points! wat?!!

Jan onwards nobody was allowed to do any fests… but i was roped in for the streetplay for the principal’s major major event- Brand India… and wat was even better was that i was going to get attendance for all the practices! Jinit and Jesse directed the play… it was funny how they thought i’ll mind being the only girl in the team of 10. each and everyone was on stage all through the 20 min street play. the directors were just brilliant! i loved the play and so did everyone else! during the practices, it was breakfast at ISH and then lunch at ISH and then snacks at ISH and dinner at…lemme think…ISH again! The play was a hit! Dolly Thakore invited us to meet wit Q productions and perform at prithvi. and someone told jesse he resembled Johny Lever… :P (btw, the dessert for lunch on the day of the event was the best brownie wit ice cream i have ever had)

Its been a long long note, but the year just swooshed by… my resume grew considerably, but more importantly, the friendships, efforts, competitiveness, determination and victories made me grow… as i write this note, i am no longer in jai hind bmm… now that i’ll b spending another 3 years for graduation, did i waste this one year? it sure doesnt sound like it! i smoked 5 cigarettes in 3 hours in arnav’s bathroom, with arnav sitting on the pot, nisha crouching in a corner near him, n amaan holding the camera in my face… i burst a jumbo balloon right in front of leopold’s for nisha’s shortfilm and then all 3 of us made puppy faces at the police… i played hollywood bollywood wit zara n aaliya, devised a code language wit nikita mor… shot in a jungle on a sky scraper and in a pool and got thrown on a rock thrown off the terrace an drowned respectively…made friends with Dev n Sushma…chaired a committee with ppl from all over the world at an international UN summit… lost it over the management project, enjoyed ppl getting drunk, went clubbing wit some whacky clubbing buddies, crossed my fingers wheneva any1 said BMM classes always fall apart, loved a lot of people, and was loved by a lot of people… 

after its all done, all that matters is if u r remembered…if u r missed… i’m told i am!

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Some Thoughts About Interior Decoration Color Schemes

September 2nd, 2010

It is often easier to decorate around the house; there exist some amount of spontaneity inspiring you to plunge into your own styling. When it comes to wall color schemes, things turn the other way. For amateurs and enthusiasts and homemakers too, this field appears a bit risky, with lots to lose- time, money, and efforts to start with, not to mention the redoing it requires.

You don’t need to feel overwhelmed with the ordeal. To plan and co-ordinate color scheme for every room in the home, you can take one step at a time. Assess each room individually and make notes as to the amount of natural light it receives, the kind of lighting you have used and the color that will best compliment the natural architectural features of your home. It’s easy to estimate these details, if you have lived in the house for some time.

Before you decide, take a closer look at the existing carpeting, flooring and woodwork and it will allow you to make a safe choice. On an average, color scheme on the walls will helps you to determine the harmony between colors to be used throughout the décor. Color wheels are often used to determine the complimentary colors; you can do the accents furnishings (rugs, lamps, paintings) and furniture in the complimentary colors. Some common schemes for selecting the best color for a space,

•  Monochromatic Color Scheme: The most common one, it uses a single color in different shades, tints, values, textures and hues to bring the harmony and flow, a sense of uniformity to a place.
•  Analogous scheme: This one uses adjacent colors on the color wheel, allowing you many possibilities within the warm or cool color category. Plan the colors diligently, for it is important for the colors to come out as a great combo.
•  A complementary scheme: Here, one can use the colors opposite each other on the color wheel, again a difficult task as the balance of colors will take some careful thinking. Considered bold and modern.
•  Triadic Color Scheme: This one uses three hues. Each is placed consecutively or at equal distances from each other. For example, yellow, green and red, this scheming uses their tones, shades and scales in three hues placed at equal distances from each other.On studying the color wheel and looking up different color scheming, get a practical view and start planning. Here are a few steps for your consideration,
•  When you have decided on the color palette for a room, start with the lighter shades for walls, medium for furniture and windows (or contrasts), doors etc. If you don’t want to change the furniture, work around a wall color that is a shade lighter in the same order. Accessories may look great in the darkest of shade on your color card.
•  Lighter shades like cream, whites, lemon, Ivory can make a big difference in making a space look larger. You can use a lighter shade as the base or neutral color; play with contrast and bolder shades for rest of the décor.
•  You need to have ‘eye resting point’ where all the colors break even. Nothing big or too loud, a great complimentary colored vase or bowl or art piece or painting that highlights the accents, and harmonizes the interiors in a balancing art.
•  Usually, people use boldest of colors on fabrics like cushions, curtains and mats. You can use harmonize fabrics by using colors as accent fabrics on chairs, decorative pillows, tablecloths and mats.
•  Repeat each colors in an equal proportion throughout the room, and in at least 3-4 places. The best color ratio: Divide color use to approximately 60% of the room in the background (lightest) color, 30% in the mid-tone color, and 10% in the brightest, accent colors.

Play within the color rules, but when it comes to creativity, don’t overlook your own power. You can do wonders with pieces and bits within the arena and create a space that reflects your taste, your individuality.

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